10 Extremely Dirty Life Wisdoms

Nov 17, 2024#读书摘要87

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The text outlines several tips for navigating professional relationships and favors: 1. Key elements for getting things done include using connections, offering drinks, and leveraging relationships. 2. Gifts should be given in advance, preferably at night. 3. When asking for favors, provide incentives upfront rather than after the fact. 4. When inviting a leader to dinner, send a message before calling to show sincerity. 5. Keep gift-giving understated to avoid appearing insincere. 6. Paying the bill discreetly while excusing oneself can be more comfortable. 7. Gifts should be planned two months in advance to encourage action. 8. Wait to claim red envelopes in work groups to ensure personal gain. 9. Always respond to leaders via text instead of voice messages. 10. When riding with a leader, sit in the front passenger seat instead of the back.

Three essentials for doing business: smoke to build connections, alcohol to pave the way, and relationships to get you on the fast track.
Three essentials for gift-giving: give in advance, stay over to give, and do it in the evening.
When asking someone to help with a task, never start by saying that benefits will come after the task is completed; benefits should be given beforehand.
When inviting a leader to dinner, always send a message first before calling; don’t just send a message, or they may think you are insincere.
Gift-giving should be understated; don’t deliberately mention how long you prepared or how much you spent, as this will devalue the gift.
When inviting someone to dinner, using the excuse of going to the restroom to pay the bill is more comfortable than paying in front of them.
Gifts should be prepared two months in advance; giving them during the task is pressuring someone to act.
In a work group, when a leader sends a red envelope, wait a moment before grabbing it; you won’t miss out on your share.
When replying to a leader’s message, no matter how urgent, only type your response; do not send a voice message.
When riding in a leader's car, only sit in the front passenger seat, not in the back.