Being towards death

In any kind of relationship, strength is the primary factor, and interests come first. Don't harbor unrealistic fantasies about others; emotions are often very fragile in the face of interests and strength, and they are not as valuable as you think.

The hospital's rule is to pay first and then receive treatment. This seemingly normal process makes many poor people hesitate in the face of illness and reluctantly give up treatment; this is the harsh reality.

Don't be superstitious about any circles. A circle is not something you can just enter; there is no warmth, only mutual interests at play. When you have value, the circle will naturally form; otherwise, it's just an empty dream.

Connections do not come out of nowhere; they are determined by your value. If your value is high, your connections will be broad; if you have no value, your connections will be as illusory as bubbles, disappearing quickly.

The true wealth of the rich is not those mansions, luxury cars, and savings, but the poor. The poor form the foundation of the rich's wealth accumulation, creating value for them.

After entering society, you will find that most interpersonal relationships are mutually beneficial. The size of your value directly determines how long the relationship can last; don't overestimate the weight of emotions in it.

Never impulsively tear the facade apart. When conflicts arise, never be the first to flip the table; after all, the mountains are high and the waters long, and there are encounters everywhere in the world.

Smile at those you dislike; this is a kind of patience we must learn. Even if it feels a bit nauseating, it is a sign of maturity.

In crowded places, you must control your mouth. Too many words lead to loss; if you say the wrong things too often, you will only create trouble for yourself.

When a person is alone or in a small group, they must control their heart. Allowing wild thoughts to flourish will only lead to endless delusions and suffering, which is self-inflicted trouble.

In the chess game of society, there is no need to go to great lengths to please others for a good impression; you are the one who should be cherished the most. Aside from yourself, no one else deserves such flattery.

Among acquaintances, being too sharp can easily invite jealousy. Knowing how to hide your strength and quietly accumulate wealth is the mark of a wise person.

Making money is the most powerful way to protect yourself and your loved ones; a solid economic foundation is the guarantee of stability.

Don't be bound by others' gazes; focus solely on your own goals and strive towards them. The unspoken rules of social interactions state that when others do not understand you, they will be wary of you and not dare to bully you easily.

Don't be too eager to take on tasks; otherwise, you might easily offend people unintentionally.

People can accept the success of strangers but cannot tolerate those around them doing better than themselves, just like when one person earns money, the whole village envies, and when one person becomes rich, the whole village obstructs.

Don't be too direct when speaking; you should know how to give others face.

Don't collaborate with relatives and friends in money-making businesses; the key to business is to satisfy strangers.

Don't reveal all your abilities at once; you need to keep some cards up your sleeve.

Cry poor in front of friends, boast appropriately in front of strangers, don't show poverty to those in higher positions, and don't show wealth to those in lower positions. When poor, don't mention being poor; when rich, don't mention being rich.

Speaking actually has three purposes. Either you can make people happy, which makes everyone like you; or you can get others to willingly help you; or you can make money, which is very practical.

Never argue with those who are unreasonable, just like you wouldn't wrestle with a pig. If you get entangled with them and end up dirty, you'll feel bad, but they won't care and might even enjoy it.

Don't frequently post on social media for no reason. Many people who come to care about you actually just want to see how poorly you are doing; don't give them that opportunity.

Regardless of the relationship, if the other party never considers your feelings or interests, you should quickly cut ties with such people; don't let yourself keep suffering.