Not for the list - andrewji8

Interpersonal Communication:

Do not compare yourself to others.
Do not complain about your parents.
Do not gossip about others.
Do not falsely accuse others.
Do not say "Do you understand what I mean?" to others.
Do not isolate yourself and immerse yourself in your own little world.
Do not lend money to others beyond your capabilities.
Do not waste time on winning or losing, and stop trying to convince others.
Do not try to please everyone, learn to say no for fairness.
Do not use emotions to solve problems or escape from reality.
Do not allow others to emotionally manipulate you for free, there must be a price for those who manipulate me.
Do not establish relationships based on ulterior motives.
Do not act as a teacher unless you have internalized and developed your own viewpoints, try to remain silent.
Do not attend class reunions anymore.
Do not immediately argue back, listen to others first.
Do not reply to comments from trolls.
Do not be a "licking dog" (someone who excessively flatters others).
Do not try to change someone.
Stop unnecessary politeness and stop being mean or getting angry with loved ones.
Stop engaging in meaningless conversations and focus on your own needs.
Stop unconditionally considering others' needs, establish rules first before taking action.
Stop communicating with people who do not care about me.
Stop rushing to express personal opinions.
Say goodbye to meaningless social interactions.
End a romantic relationship when necessary.

Behavioral Habits:

Do not smoke or drink alcohol.
Do not overeat.
Do not consume high-calorie fried foods after 10 PM.
Do not drink milk tea (contains excessive low-quality fat and sugar) or high-sugar coffee drinks.
Do not eat pineapple or ask about the taste of pineapple.
Do not chase after small credit card benefits or spend time on trivial matters.
Do not engage in ambiguous relationships with complicated women.
Stop staying up late.
Stop unconsciously falling into negative emotions.
Stop multitasking, such as watching live broadcasts and shopping while studying Korean.
Do not take the bus after 12 AM.
During the rainy season and summer, choose high-speed trains instead of airplanes for travel between Beijing and Shanghai.
Do not invest using credit loans.
Stop appreciating ugliness (meaningless jokes, content that violates public order and morals, poorly made content, etc.).

Leisure Time:

Do not visit tourist cities like Lijiang that have been excessively commercialized.
Do not carry a camera when going out, use a smartphone instead.
Do not buy complicated planners, use a smartphone to write a to-do list.
Do not buy suede shoes or cinnamon-flavored coffee.
Do not invest in financial products that promise returns higher than normal.
Do not buy lottery tickets.
Do not chase after rising prices.
Do not engage in cryptocurrency trading.
Do not use credit loans for investment.
Quit gambling.
Stop excessive consumption.

Digital Life:

Do not use the phone to alleviate boredom and anxiety, gradually reduce unconscious phone usage.
Do not use any electronic devices within half an hour before bedtime.
Do not read online novels (causing staying up late and avoiding important tasks).
Do not play games produced by domestic companies that create social currencies and vanity through in-app purchases.
Do not use applications that recommend information based on feed streams, or at least do not use the information flow function within the app.
Stop using TikTok to pass the time.
Do not use the "bookmark" button because after bookmarking, you rarely look at or listen to it again; read articles and make notes immediately.
Stop sharing images containing personal information without processing them.
Stop purchasing foreign SaaS services that exceed actual needs.

Work and Study:

Stop pretending to study hard.
Stop deliberately studying English, language is more important in practice.
Stop changing jobs blindly without knowing what you want.
Stop spending a lot of time on improving your weaknesses.
Stop relying solely on passion to start a business.
Stop being ashamed to talk about money, be ashamed of pursuing profit.
Instead of selling what people need, sell what they want: e.g. people need to study, but they all want to succeed without studying.
Do not make commitments in meetings or gatherings with more than 20 people.
Stop technical research that is unrelated to improving thinking.
Stop attending valueless meetings.

Others:

Stop focusing on the macro and observe and reflect on personal growth.
Stop pursuing perfection excessively, do not put too much energy into improving the last few decimal points.
Stop being attached to the past, stop regretting past events.
Before doing something, do not consult with someone who is not an expert in that field.
When making any decision, do not focus on sunk costs, focus on opportunity costs.
Stop having a mentality of luck, always consider the probability behind things, do not waste time on things that cannot be influenced, and strive to optimize things that can be influenced and changed.