Many people do not understand the underlying logic of this society, so once they encounter injustice or things that do not go their way, they are filled with resentment. The accumulation of this resentment comes from two aspects: one is grievance, and the other is anger. Only when you understand the underlying logic of society can you begin to play the game of society.
First:
In the Rooster Kingdom, there were originally many united, loving, and hardworking little roosters. Later, the old foxes took over the Rooster Kingdom, and the old foxes carelessly advised the little roosters that they could not sink into their comfortable chicken coops. The old foxes encouraged the little roosters to bravely go out and become the eagles soaring in the sky. They told you that only by risking everything can you be reborn; by jumping off the cliff on the mountain, your wings will naturally become strong and resilient, undergoing a magnificent transformation. The little roosters believed the old foxes' words and resolutely jumped off the cliff. Meanwhile, the old foxes' colleagues had already set up a pot at the bottom of the mountain, and a grand turkey feast was about to begin.
The little roosters eagerly lined up with dreams and jumped off the cliff one after another, but they did not realize they had been deceived by the old foxes. Doesn't this resemble how some wealthy people today encourage the poor to work hard to get rich, to create more social value, and not to lie flat?
But did they tell you where to work hard and which correct path to take? No, they only suppress and deny you. So you must always keep a clear mind and not be easily led by any big influencer or public intellectual; only then do you have a chance to compete with them at the table.
Second:
Marriage was not created to protect the common people; rather, monogamy was established to maintain social stability. We need to acknowledge a fact: while money may not necessarily buy happiness, it can absolutely buy the freedom of choice. An ordinary family raising one child does not need to be frugal, while wealthy people can easily afford multiple children. Therefore, you will find that many rich people do not get married and do not give any woman a title, yet women can still have children. There are many losers who do not understand children and pursue pure love, but I tell you this is a very foolish behavior.
Love is something that the upper class deliberately constructs for certain purposes, and the purpose is actually to consume your energy and attention. Attention is always one of the most valuable resources in all eras. If you have ever raised a dog, you should understand that a dog's attention and energy cannot be consumed elsewhere. Animals are like this, and so are we; our energy is limited and cannot afford to be consumed by too many things.
If you look at history, you will find that all those who overthrew dynasties were men: Shang Tang, Ji Fa, Ying Zheng, Liu Bang, Sima Yi, Zhu Yuanzhang—all men. Therefore, men are deemed a threat to social stability, and reducing the threat index means distributing resources evenly. To ensure the upper class's resource abundance, you will find a very interesting thing: once you have a wife and children, you will have a weakness, and you will be controlled by others. Nowadays, those who want to start a business are mostly young people, but once you get married, you will hesitate to take risks. Marriage has never been a necessity, nor is it a constraint of rules and morals; it is merely a tool to maintain social stability.
In today's society, there are many men who complain about being unappreciated or born at the wrong time. To such people, I can only say they deserve to be the cattle and horses of a prosperous age and cannon fodder in a chaotic one. If you want to enter the upper middle class, there are only three ways: production materials, resources, and business ability.
As an ordinary person, your production materials and resources are certainly inferior to those of the rich. Ordinary people basically rely on the third type: your business ability. On what basis do you judge that you are unappreciated? Many times, being an angry youth is completely meaningless or an unwise act. Because you are foolish and lack the ability to discern right from wrong, you cannot say this is wrong; it is just that you have not stood at a higher position. If you are an alpha male, they never think about complaining but rather about how to improve their business ability while mastering production materials and resources. Without business ability, production materials, and resources, you have no value in this society and can only become a laborer at the bottom. If you want to climb up and sit at the table, you can only strive to become a quality alpha male.
Alpha males represent confidence, leadership, aggression, and a bit of arrogance;
Beta males represent timidity, being led, following the majority opinion, and being passive.