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Being towards death

Heed not to the tree-rustling and leaf-lashing rain, Why not stroll along, whistle and sing under its rein. Lighter and better suited than horses are straw sandals and a bamboo staff, Who's afraid? A palm-leaf plaited cape provides enough to misty weather in life sustain. A thorny spring breeze sobers up the spirit, I feel a slight chill, The setting sun over the mountain offers greetings still. Looking back over the bleak passage survived, The return in time Shall not be affected by windswept rain or shine.
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12 mindsets that make men become stronger quickly, please read patiently, there will definitely be gains!

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1. Don't worry about what others think and be true to yourself. 2. Don't be afraid to take risks and seize opportunities. 3. Know when to cut your losses and let go of negative situations. 4. Don't always be the one to offer help without being asked. 5. Be kind but also stand up for yourself when necessary. 6. Embrace periods of uncertainty and continue to learn and grow. 7. Practice and work hard to excel in what you want to achieve. 8. Focus on your own path and don't waste time on others' opinions. 9. Let your actions and results speak for themselves. 10. Maintain a sense of enlightenment and don't let negative thoughts consume you. 11. Protect and support your family. 12. Trust your own judgment and don't let others' opinions affect you.

  1. Don't be afraid of losing face
    No one will always remember your embarrassing moments. The only person who truly cannot forget is yourself. So don't care too much about what others say, relax and be yourself. A real man is true to himself.

  2. Don't be timid
    If you're afraid of socializing, you'll miss out on opportunities with girls. If you're afraid of interviews, high-paying job offers will go to others. Life is like a battlefield, luck is just an excuse for the successful. If you want something, be bold and fight for it.

  3. Cut your losses in time
    Don't be obsessed with the so-called sunk costs. If you hang on to one tree, you'll lose the entire forest. If you have a bad job, toxic friends, incompatible partners, you should let go without hesitation. Don't sink deeper into those situations.

  4. Don't be too kind-hearted
    Don't be too eager to help when others don't ask for it. Sometimes your kindness may be seen as showing off. Because helping you implies that you can't do it yourself, that's why you need my help. From the perspective of the person being helped, sometimes they may think you're showing off.

  5. Be kind but assertive
    A man who doesn't provoke trouble and isn't afraid of it has the most grace. Maintaining kindness and goodness is a valuable quality. But when someone unreasonably picks a fight with you, you should stand up for yourself and have the courage to face challenges.

  6. Embrace periods of confusion
    No one is born knowing what they should do. Everyone is constantly searching and finding themselves. When you're confused, don't belittle yourself or give up. Read more good books and communicate with outstanding people.

  7. Practice repeatedly
    When you are determined to do something well, practice relentlessly. Boys who often play basketball know that the shooting percentage of a three-point shooter is achieved through repeated practice. So if you find this work useful, give it a like and save it for repeated reading.

  8. Find your own path
    Like a satellite, live in your own orbit. Don't pay too much attention to the voices from other orbits, and there's no need to spend time correcting their thoughts. Your time is precious, spend it on learning and self-improvement.

  9. Let actions and results speak
    Don't rush to reveal your goals before they are achieved, and don't just talk without taking action. Let your actions and results speak for themselves.

  10. Maintain a sense of enlightenment
    Most unhappy people are those who constantly overthink and have internal conflicts. But many things have nothing to do with you. Maintain a sense of enlightenment when facing problems, and you will feel much lighter.

  11. Protect your family
    Family is the only one who loves you unconditionally in this world. So boys must strive to become strong. The happier your family will be, the higher your level is. If you don't strive for progress, it's your family who will bear the burden.

  12. You have the final say
    Buying new shoes is not to hear others say if it's cool or not, but to satisfy your own taste and make your feet comfortable. Similarly, when others criticize you, don't lose confidence. What qualifications do they have to judge you?

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