Author Introduction:
Leung Kai-cheung (August 17, 1955 -), English name Michael, former host of the second channel of Hong Kong Radio, is also a famous DJ and writer, and has been engaged in media creation such as advertising and television stations. His soft and magnetic voice creates a more atmospheric and engaging experience when reading articles.
My Son:
I am writing this memo to you based on three principles:
(1) Life is unpredictable, and no one knows how long they will live. It is better to discuss certain things earlier.
(2) I am your father, and if I don't tell you, no one else will.
(3) The experiences recorded in this memo are the result of my painful failures. They can save you from unnecessary troubles and help you grow.
The following are the things you should remember in your life:
(1) Don't worry too much about people who treat you badly. In your life, no one is obligated to treat you well except for me and your mother. As for those who treat you well, besides cherishing and being grateful, please also be cautious because everyone has a reason for doing things. Their kindness may not necessarily be because they like you. You must understand this and not quickly consider them as true friends.
(2) No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is a must-have. Once you understand this, when the people around you no longer need you or when you lose everything you love the most, you should understand that it is not a big deal.
(3) Life is short. Today, you are wasting your life, but tomorrow you will realize that life has passed you by. Therefore, the earlier you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy. Instead of hoping for a long life, it is better to start enjoying it early.
(4) There is no such thing as true love in the world. Love is just a fleeting feeling, and this feeling will definitely change with time and mood. If your so-called true love leaves you, please patiently wait, let time slowly wash away, let your soul slowly settle, and your pain will gradually fade away. Do not overly fantasize about the beauty of love, and do not exaggerate the sadness of heartbreak.
(5) Although many successful people have not received much education, it does not mean that you can succeed without studying hard. The knowledge you acquire is your weapon. A person can start from scratch, but they cannot be defenseless. Remember this!
(6) I will not ask you to support me for the rest of my life, and likewise, I will not support you for the rest of your life. When you grow up and become independent, my responsibility will be fulfilled. From then on, whether you take the bus or drive a Benz, eat shark fin or noodles, it will be your own responsibility.
(7) You can demand yourself to be trustworthy, but you cannot demand others to be trustworthy. You can demand yourself to be kind to others, but you cannot expect others to be kind to you. How you treat others does not determine how they will treat you. If you cannot see through this, you will only add unnecessary worries.
(8) I have been buying lottery tickets for over ten or twenty years, but I am still poor. I haven't even won third prize. This proves that in order to become prosperous, one must work hard. There is no such thing as a free lunch in the world.
(9) The bond with family only happens once. No matter how long we will be together in this lifetime, please cherish the time we spend together. In the next life, whether we love each other or not, we will never meet again.
Your father, Leung Kai-cheung